By Karin van Nieuwkerk
The discourse on sex and gender in the Muslim world is not
an easy thing to describe. It should be borne in mind that there is not one
discourse, and that they do not define actual relations. Besides, discourses
are neither stable over time nor undisputed. In this section, I compare two
discourses on gender and sexuality, firstly the orthodox discourse (Sabbah
1984), comparable to what Mernissi calls the explicit theory of female
sexuality (1975), and secondly, the implicit theory and its extension into the
erotic discourse. I particularly deal with the way the female body is
constructed in these discourses.
In the explicit religious discourse the sexes are perceived
as complementary. Men are providers for women and in exchange for support,
women should be obedient and serve their husbands. They should keep their
virginity and after marriage, loyalty, chastity and complete dedication to
their husbands are prerequisite for securing maintenance. Women are seen as
weak and as easily overpowered by men. They therefore need protection against
the strong desires of men. In the orthodox discourse women are not perceived as
lacking in passion, although it is less intense as men's, but they are not
capable of resisting men.
Male desire is conceived as strong and capricious. Yet, it
must be gratified in the legal context of marriage lest zina', illicit
intercourse, takes place (Mernissi 1975: 17). Classic Islam defines the wifely
duties in terms of women's obligation to provide sex over and above their
obligation to reproduce and mother (2). Women cannot refuse to perform the
conjugal duty (Naamane-Guessous 1990: 194) (3). They should fulfill this duty
so as to prevent men from committing illicit intercourse. Yet, this also protects
themselves against their husbands marrying a second wife. Only women who know
how to please their husbands are capable of assuring their attention and
support.
The powerlessness of women can potentially be inverted if
they manage to seduce and ensnare men. Orthodox scholars acknowledge this
danger and since men are primarily created to worship God, they warn against
female seduction and particularly against attachment to women. God requires the
believer's total love and all of his capacity for emotional attachment:
"Emotional attachment divides man's heart, and Allah hath not created man
with two hearts within his body" (Quran Surah II: 165).
Mernissi argues that implicitly in the religious discourse
women are feared for their disruptive potentials. Women are capable of creating
fitna (4) chaos provoked by sexual disorder (Mernissi 1975: 4). According to
the implicit religious discourse, both sexes have an active sexual nature and
female desires should be gratified as well. If women are not sexually satisfied
they create fitna by enticing other men than their husbands. Hence: "The
virtue of the woman is a man's duty. And the man should increase or decrease
sexual intercourse with the woman according to her needs so as to secure her
virtue" (al-Ghazali in Mernissi 1975).
The need to satisfy the female desire and the difficulties
men have in fulfilling this duty is the topic of the erotic discourse (Sabbah
1984). The erotic discourse is an extension of the implicit theory and deals
with female desireas mirrored in men's thought. It is an attempt by religious
scholars to counsel the believer in the righteous conduct towards sexual
desire. The orthodox discourse mainly focusses on the strong male desire, the
implicit theory recognizes the active sexuality of both sexes, and the erotic
discourse is chiefly centered on the aggressive nature of female passion.
Female desire is active in the implicit theory, but it becomes aggressive and
threatening in the erotic discourse. In the erotic discourse there is thus a
reversal of roles. Men are impotent and weak whereas women's passion is
insatiable. They resort to cunning, qaid, in order to reach their sexual
gratification. Yet, despite the difference between these constructions of
gender and sexuality, it is striking that they converge in their definition of
women as primarily sexual beings. The female body is highly sexualised. Whether
the female body should be confined and covered, or unleashes its aggressive
sexuality, in both cases the sexual aspect of the female body is cardinal (5).
Women cannot refuse to perform the conjugal duty (Naamane-Guessous 1990: 194)
Whether women passively try to keep their legal husband's attention through
being desirable or actively seduce other men, in both cases their sexual dimension
is central. In both discourses the female body is reduced to the sexual
aspects.
According to Leila Ahmed (1992), who traces the changes and
varieties of discourses in the history of Middle Eastern Arabic women, it was
in the Abbasid era that the word woman became almost synonymous to slave and
object for sexual use. Marketing of women as commodities and objects for sexual
use was an everyday reality in Abbasid society. It is no wonder that Muslim
scholars of that period, such as al-Ghazali, mainly define women as sexual
beings. This period was however constitutive for the formulation of Islamic law
and thus had a profound impact up till today.
Sabbah argues that: "Muslim culture has a built-in
ideological blindness to the economic dimension of women, who are ordinarily
perceived, conceived and defined as exclusively sexual objects. The female body
has traditionally been the object of an enormous erotic investment, which has
clouded (if not totally hidden) woman's economic dimensions" (1984: 16-17).
In addition, it has led to the general eroticization of relations between the
sexes. As a result of this, working outside the home by women is often
experienced as erotic aggression.
Women are thus generally viewed as sexual beings. Whatever
women do, they are first and foremost perceived as enticing bodies. They and
their bodies seem to have only a sexual dimension. Working in the male public
space is generally perceived as an erotic invasion. The male body, although
sexual in the presence of a female body, has several dimensions, for instance,
in the economic or political field. Women, in contrast, even if they do not
move and dance, but simply walk or work in the male space, are perceived as
sexual beings. Even if they use their bodies as productive instruments, they
are perceived as sexual bodies.
This construction of gender and the body pertains to all
Egyptian women. Female entertainers differ from "decent" women
because they publicly use their bodies instead of hiding their shame as much as
possible. They publicly employ the power of their bodies. Instead of using
their feminine powers in the licit context of marriage, they tempt male
customers in public. They thus employ the sexuality of their bodies out of
wedlock which is a grave sin.
Entertainment is a particular sensitive field to work in for
women because the body is focal. Female performances are inevitably
tantalizing. As mentioned above, in strict religious opinion, female singers
are also haram.. Listening to the voice of women can evoke tempting images.
Especially since female singers are not only audible but also visible, the
bodily dimension of their performance has become more prominent. Dancing,
however, is quintessential a bodily expression. Dancing is thus by definition a
sexual activity. Unlike, for instance, actresses, dancers not only put their
sexuality on stage but they even move their sexual bodies. Moving sexual bodies
in public, in exchange for money, is almost identical to prostitution.
I had an interesting interview with a sheikh of a small
mosque. I asked him whether female folk dancers, who are fully dressed unlike
belly dancers, are less haram, he resolutely replied: "no, they also
move." I then asked him why male dancing is not haram. The answer was
easy: "A man's body is not shameful," and regardless of how it moves
and shakes, "it cannot excite." Although this seems to be an
exaggerated denial of the sexual dimension of the male body, it illustrates the
stress that is put on the productive dimension of the male body. A dancing male
body is performing a job, a dancing female body is moving sexual instincts.
In how far is this discourse about seduction, sin and shame
shared by the ones most involved, that is, female performers?
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Endnotes
1. As Ahmed states the word `awra is a highly complex
notion. It connects women, sexuality and shameful and defective things. Its
meaning includes the parts of the body that are shameful and should be
concealed (1992: 116).
2. Sexual and other services are the wifely duties but not
necessarily the bearing of children. There is thus no special emphasis on
women's generative capacity, in contradistinction to past and present oral
culture. It should be borne in mind, though, that the orthodox perspective is
discussed which was influential but not the only voice (Ahmed 1992: 92-93).
3. In Khul-Khaal: Five Egyptian women tell their stories
(Atiya 1982), one of the women related that her mother went to religious
lessons. Her daughter asked her what Sheikh Ahmad taught her that day. Her
mother replied: "He said that a woman must care for her husband, that she
must wear clean clothes before going to bed, that she should smell good. A
woman before she drifts off to sleep should ask her husband three times, 'Is
there anything you desire?' And if not, then she can sleep" (1982: 59).
4. Fitna also means a beautiful women or a femme fatale
whose attraction makes men lose their self-control (Mernissi 1975: 4).
5. I do not intend to suggest that this is exclusive to
Islam or the Middle East. It is a familiar conception in the West as well.
6. For more details about their defense strategies see Van
Nieuwkerk 1995 chapter 6 and 8.
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